Thursday, December 9, 2010

Wearing Shorts in Public

On the anniversary of our first month of living in Hong Kong, I'd like to share with you a photo that captures the difference between life in The Gambia and life here in HK:
Yes, that's right folks. Those are my legs. I didn't see much of them in The Gambia, and neither did anyone else. OK, that's a bit of an exaggeration, since we did our fair share of swimming at Coco Ocean, and of course all I wore there was my bathing suit. But in general, when I was out in public, I followed the local Muslim custom of covering my legs. It got to the point where sometimes I even felt a bit strange wearing pajama shorts around the house. Toward the end of our time there, I started getting a bit more scandalous and wearing skirts that fell right below my knees. When I did, I definitely noticed people staring at my legs. 

I didn't realize quite how much I'd internalized the custom until we arrived here in Hong Kong, and suddenly I saw women's legs everywhere. Women in mini-skirts, women in shorts... legs, legs, legs, they're out and about! I'd catch myself staring at them idly when we were walking around or riding the subway, and Doug mentioned how strange it was for him to see legs again. On our second day here, when I was getting dressed for a jog, I reached into my suitcase for the new running shorts I'd bought while we were at home in CA. Staring at them, though, they suddenly seemed a bit too short. So I opted for a longer pair (see photo) that come to a few inches about my knees. Even in those, I felt self-conscious at first. I kept glancing at people on the street to see if they were staring at my legs. (They weren't.) And the other day, when I crossed my legs during my Cantonese class, my knee-length skirt shifted and exposed my kneecaps. (Gasp!) I instinctly reached down to cover my knees, for fear of scandalizing my teacher, but he didn't seem fazed. We're not in Kansas anymore, Toto...

As you may have guessed, legs aren't the only new thing I've seen here in Hong Kong. To give you a sense of my first impressions, I offer you this photo collage:

One of the many things I've come to love about grocery shopping in Hong Kong, other than the fact that they sell just about everything, is the budget produce. Oh sure, you can empty your wallet buying a vast array on imported produce. But when fruits or veggies get a smidge past their prime, they get marked waaay down in price. Usually, though, this discount produce looks just fine to me: this pear may be a wee bit ripe, or that apple may have a miniscule bruise, but the bargain shopper in me delights in buying yummy things for cheap. What I loved in the photo above, though, wasn't the bargain but the label. In case you weren't sure what this is, folks, it's a vegetable.

Generic vegetables aren't the only interesting thing for sale around here. It's also difficult to buy a small quantity of oil. Notice how the bottles on the top shelf are linked into 3-packs? Each one of the bottles is about the average size of the bottles in my cupboard back home. Not to mention those giant jugs on the lower shelves! I did finally manage to find a single bottle of olive oil, but it took me a minute of searching to find it amidst all of the jumbo packs.

And while I know it's good to be healthy as a horse, do you really want the mane of one, too?
I spotted this umbrella vending machine in a subway station. Good idea, eh?
One of my happiest moments thus far was when I discovered that some grocery stores sell my beloved Schweppes tonic water with quinine, Gambia's beverage of champions. Even bumping my bag into a display case and hearing one of the cans start hissing could not dampen my tremendous joy. Instead, I simply emptied the other groceries from my bag and waited until the can stopped spraying everywhere. I was about to throw it away when I realized I was holding a half-can of perfectly good tonic. So what did I do? I chugged it, of course. My inner Gambian wouldn't have had it any other way.
I see this picture nearly every time I ride the MTR (subway). It's an ad for a school that teaches English. No real story here. It's just that there's something about this woman's expression and the American flag painted across her lips that I find extremely odd.
Right after we arrived, the city started prettying itself up for Christmas. There are twinkling lights, inflatable Santas, and glittering ornaments bedecking all of the malls and parks. Here's a holiday tip: Having trouble getting into the holiday spirit? Try using "bedecking" in a sentence. It'll put a Christmas grin on your face! (Obviously this Mickey statue is not aware of the strategy...)
From the number of language centers (excuse me, centres), educational enrichment programs, and other child-enhancement places I see scattered around the city, this is obviously a place that values intelligence in children. Check out those exam prep tutors being advertised on buses: they're everywhere! If you can't afford the pricier programs, perhaps a few of those pills pictured above will help instead. Just don't confuse them with the pills below:
Yes, you read that correctly: Defecation Easy (Granules). Also available in liquid form. (No, not really.)
I really miss our kitties, who are currently at home with my family. So perhaps it's no surprise that one of my favorite places in Hong Kong is the Cat Cafe. As you may have guessed from the name, it's a cafe. With cats.  The first time I went there, my new friend Rosie and I sat down in a booth inhabited by this cuddly black cat. As soon as I lifted my purse off my lap, the cat trundled over and plopped down on me. I was quite a happy girl!
I was not as happy to discover that Hong Kong chefs like to put meat in just about everything. It's not to say that we can't find good veggie food here; we definitely can. I even discovered a vegan dining club that goes to a different vegetarian restaurant every week. But seriously, you know you're living in a meaty culture when they make meat cookies. MEAT COOKIES, people. And there's not just one kind of meat in there, either. Oh, no. These are multi-meat cookies! Which is grosser, these cookies, or the picture below?
Ahem. That says Chicken Paw.
Carrying along in the vein of things that have grossed me out, I spotted this sign in the bathroom of a dance studio where I attended a modern dance class. In case you can't read it, the sign asks ladies "for hygienic conditions" to "please vomit ONLY into the toilet bowl and flush." Gee, I wonder what kind of body image messages women are getting at this dance studio? Ugh. I didn't go back.
But not to worry, Hong Kong isn't all meat cookies and messiness. Doug and I have also had fun exploring the prettier, more inviting parts of Hong Kong. One day I stumbled across the Hong Kong Zoo & Botanical Gardens, which has a fun collection of birds (including flamingos, above), reptiles, small mammals, and plants. (They even have a raccoon--ha!) Another time, we discovered some colorful murals as we traveled up the Central/Mid-Levels Escalators, a long stretch of steep escalators that carry people up the hills of HK Island. Then we hiked even further into the hills and discovered a trail through the trees that looked out over the city. We've also caught some great views of the harbor on walks and ferry rides:
One thing I love about HK is that the public transit will get you anywhere, including to all sorts of great hiking spots. (When was the last time you took the bus up to the trails on Skyline, or out to Rancho San Antonio? I rest my case.) Last weekend, I took the subway, then a bus, then walked for 30 minutes up a super-steep hill (one thing HK and SF have in common!) to join a section of the Wilson Trail. The trail started out winding over the top of a mountain and through the trees, with occasional views of the city below:
After curling through the trees, the trail went downdowndowndowndown hundreds of stone steps to join a paved trail along a water catchment. I couldn't resist a photograph with the monkey statue along the way:
While I do own this same Travel Scrabble, I swear it wasn't me who left Scrabble trash in the forest!
As I approached the end of my walk, I noticed some unfamiliar shapes on the trail ahead:
Turns out they were macaques, which I'd never seen before. I'll admit they made me a little nervous, mostly because they didn't seem the least bit scared of me. One of them even hissed at the guy walking not far behind me. At one point, there were about 50 macaques on or next to the trail, chasing each other, grooming each other, carrying their babies, or just hanging out in groups. I started having flashbacks to the monkey forest in The Gambia, so I picked up a stick in case any of the macaques got a little too friendly. (For the record, I never actually ever touched a Gambian monkey with a stick. They just made me a little nervous when they came too close.) The stick made me feel silly until I turned around and realized that the guy behind me had also picked up a stick after he saw me do it. We both got through unscathed, though, and I boarded the bus for home relieved and happily tired by my hike.

I'll leave you with a few shots of our apartment and neighborhood. Not too far from our apartment, there's a mall built to look like a cruise ship:
I do miss seeing palm trees out our window, but check out our new view. Not too shabby.
As you may remember, last year our Christmas "tree" in The Gambia consisted of a pineapple from a local fruit stand and a pine branch that Rose brought to us in a Ziploc bag all the way from Austria. This year, we've upgraded to Christmas Tree 2.0. My friend Dorcas and I were walking out of our building's mall when we noticed that it smelled like Christmas. Turns out the 15-foot tree that the staff was decorating in the lobby was the real thing! I persuaded one of the mall staff members to give me a piece of one of the branches that the crew had cut off the tree. Now our living room smells like Christmas, too. Hooray! (This picture also reminds me of living at the Pastoria house in Sunnyvale with its huge branch on the wall.) Merry Christmas, everybody!

Sunday, November 21, 2010

Hong Kong food (seen today in metro)

"Chicken Cookies (With Pork)"

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Farewell, Gambia...

Much has happened since I last blogged. The biggest news is that we've relocated to Hong Kong. "Whaaat?" you may ask. The short answer to your exclamation/question is that D.light (the company whose solar lamps we'd been selling) hired Doug as their engineering director, so we closed up our business in The Gambia and moved to their company headquarters in Hong Kong. We've been here almost two weeks, and though we don't know a word of Cantonese yet, we have found an apartment, bought some furniture, and started to learn our way around. (Oh yeah, and Doug started work three days after we arrived!) But before I tell you about life in Hong Kong, I want to share a few photos and stories from our final two months in The Gambia:

As you can probably imagine, wrapping up our business and life in such a short amount of time was stressful and chaotic. But what made that time bearable, and even fun, was the fact that we got to share the final six weeks of Gambian life with my sister. 
Anyone who stayed in our house in The Gambia knows that I love to bake cookies, especially when guests arrive. Having Nuzz visit was no exception! Here, we're making Katie and Zack's favorite treat, snickerdoodles.
During the first three days Nuzz was in town, it rained nearly nonstop! Our dreams of sun-drenched afternoons by the Coco Ocean pool were (temporarily) dashed, but we salvaged her first weekend in town by playing game after game of Scrabble.
Of course, Eve and Squeak were happy to meet their aunt, and responded by being their usual adorable selves. As you can see, though, they are no help when it comes to doing housework! They're too interested in what we're doing, and insist on getting into the middle of things. The same is true when we vacuum: they're the only cats I've met who will follow you around the house at a safe but close distance, their eyes focused intently on the sweep of the vacuum.
Nuzz and I didn't just bake cookies; we also had a lot of fun cooking dinners together. We came up with some delicious creations, including pita pizzas, the meal that's in process in this photo. This time, though, Nuzz's attempt to lightly salt the tomatoes, went slightly awry... 

Not only were Doug and I happy to see Nuzz and share The Gambia with her, but we were also happy to have her help with the Herculean task of closing our business. Our biggest challenge was charging our remaining inventory in preparation for liquidation. We set up a massive "charging factory" in our office, and succeeded in charging more than 3000 lights in less than ten days! We also found a distributor who will continue selling lights in The Gambia, which makes us happy.

 
The effort involved many extremely late nights at the office, during which we watched movies and ate pizza while we waited for a charging cycle to finish.
One day during our chargefest, I went outside our office to find the Red Cross loading a truck with mattresses to distribute to the country's flood victims. Check out that load! (You can see our shop's sign on the left side of the photo.)
The day before we left The Gambia, though, the remaining mattresses that were being stored in our building caught on fire. Luckily, everyone was able to evacuate the building (some on long, rickety ladders!), but the fire was quite large and caused a lot of damage. Since our flight left the next day, I don't know how the clean-up efforts are going, but I really hope that everyone who works in the building is OK.

 
My special thoughts and prayers are with Isatou, the young woman who worked with us for five months, and who plans to continue selling D.lights. This is a picture of her, me, and her younger sister Jeynaba.
When we arrived in The Gambia last year, I never thought I'd be sad to leave. I was homesick for much of our first six months, and I felt like I couldn't find the places where I fit in. Then, slowly, I made new friends, and those friends became dear friends. I discovered the joys of swimming at Coco Ocean, playing ultimate frisbee in tall grass, going to game night on Saturday, fabric shopping in Serrekunda Market, and, of course, drinking tonic water with lime (Katie, I'm looking at you). And when it came time to leave, I realized that this dusty, unfamiliar place had, in some ways, become my home. For me, home is made of the people I know and the experiences I share with them. And I have certainly shared some unforgettable times with my Gambian friends, you know who you are. Thank you for making Gambia feel like home to me. I will always be grateful to each of you for that.

As for what I think of our new home, please stay tuned! I have many other stories and photos to share...
 
P.S. Since several of you have asked about what happened to Eve and Squeak, never fear! They are at home with my family in CA, gaining their US citizenship so we can bring them to HK next year.