Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Farewell, Gambia...

Much has happened since I last blogged. The biggest news is that we've relocated to Hong Kong. "Whaaat?" you may ask. The short answer to your exclamation/question is that D.light (the company whose solar lamps we'd been selling) hired Doug as their engineering director, so we closed up our business in The Gambia and moved to their company headquarters in Hong Kong. We've been here almost two weeks, and though we don't know a word of Cantonese yet, we have found an apartment, bought some furniture, and started to learn our way around. (Oh yeah, and Doug started work three days after we arrived!) But before I tell you about life in Hong Kong, I want to share a few photos and stories from our final two months in The Gambia:

As you can probably imagine, wrapping up our business and life in such a short amount of time was stressful and chaotic. But what made that time bearable, and even fun, was the fact that we got to share the final six weeks of Gambian life with my sister. 
Anyone who stayed in our house in The Gambia knows that I love to bake cookies, especially when guests arrive. Having Nuzz visit was no exception! Here, we're making Katie and Zack's favorite treat, snickerdoodles.
During the first three days Nuzz was in town, it rained nearly nonstop! Our dreams of sun-drenched afternoons by the Coco Ocean pool were (temporarily) dashed, but we salvaged her first weekend in town by playing game after game of Scrabble.
Of course, Eve and Squeak were happy to meet their aunt, and responded by being their usual adorable selves. As you can see, though, they are no help when it comes to doing housework! They're too interested in what we're doing, and insist on getting into the middle of things. The same is true when we vacuum: they're the only cats I've met who will follow you around the house at a safe but close distance, their eyes focused intently on the sweep of the vacuum.
Nuzz and I didn't just bake cookies; we also had a lot of fun cooking dinners together. We came up with some delicious creations, including pita pizzas, the meal that's in process in this photo. This time, though, Nuzz's attempt to lightly salt the tomatoes, went slightly awry... 

Not only were Doug and I happy to see Nuzz and share The Gambia with her, but we were also happy to have her help with the Herculean task of closing our business. Our biggest challenge was charging our remaining inventory in preparation for liquidation. We set up a massive "charging factory" in our office, and succeeded in charging more than 3000 lights in less than ten days! We also found a distributor who will continue selling lights in The Gambia, which makes us happy.

 
The effort involved many extremely late nights at the office, during which we watched movies and ate pizza while we waited for a charging cycle to finish.
One day during our chargefest, I went outside our office to find the Red Cross loading a truck with mattresses to distribute to the country's flood victims. Check out that load! (You can see our shop's sign on the left side of the photo.)
The day before we left The Gambia, though, the remaining mattresses that were being stored in our building caught on fire. Luckily, everyone was able to evacuate the building (some on long, rickety ladders!), but the fire was quite large and caused a lot of damage. Since our flight left the next day, I don't know how the clean-up efforts are going, but I really hope that everyone who works in the building is OK.

 
My special thoughts and prayers are with Isatou, the young woman who worked with us for five months, and who plans to continue selling D.lights. This is a picture of her, me, and her younger sister Jeynaba.
When we arrived in The Gambia last year, I never thought I'd be sad to leave. I was homesick for much of our first six months, and I felt like I couldn't find the places where I fit in. Then, slowly, I made new friends, and those friends became dear friends. I discovered the joys of swimming at Coco Ocean, playing ultimate frisbee in tall grass, going to game night on Saturday, fabric shopping in Serrekunda Market, and, of course, drinking tonic water with lime (Katie, I'm looking at you). And when it came time to leave, I realized that this dusty, unfamiliar place had, in some ways, become my home. For me, home is made of the people I know and the experiences I share with them. And I have certainly shared some unforgettable times with my Gambian friends, you know who you are. Thank you for making Gambia feel like home to me. I will always be grateful to each of you for that.

As for what I think of our new home, please stay tuned! I have many other stories and photos to share...
 
P.S. Since several of you have asked about what happened to Eve and Squeak, never fear! They are at home with my family in CA, gaining their US citizenship so we can bring them to HK next year. 

Monday, August 9, 2010

Making La Limonade in Dakar

Tomorrow, we head home to the Gambia after a six-day odyssey in Dakar, Senegal. I decided to capture bits of our crazy trip in haiku. Hope you enjoy it!

Seventeen hours of
travel sans peeing. Potholes
shake our bumper free.


Children scream: "It's gone!"
We gape at our naked rear.
A taxi drives past.


Our bumper! On its
roof! Driver pleas for money,
but gives it for free.


Car squawks dead-bird sounds
in traffic on dark Dakar
highway. What to do?


We squeak to town. "Fine," 
says hotel. "Our mechanic's
here." We sigh relief.


For three days, he works,
Promising each day, "Almost
done, almost finished."


Then he frowns and says
"I can't do it." Our gift of 
lemons from Dakar.


We sulk and mope, then
decide to make lemonade.
We nap, eat ice cream.


I buy fabric, we
stroll by the sea, eat croissants, 
drink mango juice. Yum.


I sneak a swim at 
a fancy hotel. We find
a TOFU BURGER!


A hopeful call to
Peace Corps Senegal yields a 
skilled mechanic. Whew.


Now, hope renewed, car 
repaired, we navigate the  
city's crazy streets.


Dakar roads are like
San Francisco without stop 
lights. A soupy mess.


Roadside, we spot a
child's bike with a slogan we
love: "Yeah Cat Rabbit!"


As we share one more 
tofu burger, we reflect 
on lessons learned. 


When life throws lemons,
make lemonade. Oh yeah, and 
don't drive to Dakar!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

Love Texts

Last night, a few of our Peace Corps friends introduced me to a Gambian phenomenon that has captivated me: the love text. Apparently, if you need help wooing your beloved, you can text one of the local cell phone carriers and receive a love quote in return, which you can then forward to the object of your affection. Not only are the quotes themselves good for quite a laugh, but their spelling and punctuation add another layer of humor. A few juicy samples, copied verbatim:

A mournful Hallmark moment:
"one day the moon said 2 me, if ur lover makes u cry why don't you leave yr lover.. i looked at the moon and replied would u every leave ur sky?"

Love text meets health warning:
"One who smokes has a smoky heart; one who drinks has an alcoholic heart. So dear U must STOP eating sweets as u r already a SWEETEHART!"

Is it just me, or is this one vaguely threatening?
"You can close your yes to things you dont want to see, but you can't close your Heart to things you dont want to feel."

And my personal favorite:
"Every teardrop is precious so better make sure that if u drop some its worth crying for cause u can never pick them and put them back to your eyes. Love wisely"

Sunday, May 30, 2010

Of Creatures Cute and Creepy

May has been a month of memorable moments, many of them involving cute or creepy critters. From the joy of introducing my mom to the Gambia and our kittens, to the morbid intrigue of dead blowfish, it's a month best captured in photos. Without further ado, here we go...

Even though I wasn't sure what my mom would think about the Gambia in general, there was one part of the country I knew she'd love: our kittens! I don't think I've posted too many pictures of them, but let me share a few to give you a sense of how overwhelmingly adorable they are:
Doug and Squeak
Mom and Eve
How can you resist that cuteness?!
Oh, the belly!
Some of the other creatures we encountered during my mom's stay weren't quite as predictably cute. During our walks on the beach, we discovered that it is the season of dead things washing up on the shore, particularly neon jellyfish and crazily swollen blowfish. I've included a scenic shot of the beach to make up for the ickiness of the dead-blowfish photo. But if you're squeamish, you may want still want to scroll quickly past the third picture, even though I can't help but stare at it in morbid fascination.

We saw some cuter critters when we hiked in the monkey forest. Actually, the monkeys make me a bit nervous, since they aren't scared of humans and will walk right up to you. They didn't bother us, but I couldn't shake the feeling that one of them might jump on me if I hesitated or stayed too close. (This could have something to do with the fact that a monkey jumped on me and gnawed through my pants pocket when I was 12. True story.) My mom, however, was totally calm, and thought the monkeys were awesome.
Mom at the edge of the monkey forest
Check out the hugging monkeys!
Perhaps the most annoying creatures in my life right now are the ones that live in my imagination. They're the invisible bugs that creep and crawl on me every day, making me scratch frantically for a moment until I realize, yet again, that these bugs are actually rivulets of sweat running down my skin. Because of them, I've fallen in love with swimming. Not only does the cool water cleanse me of sweat bugs, but the feeling of buoyancy I get as I glide through the pool is also the best antidote I've found for the stresses of work.
The other day, Doug and I were outside watering and trimming our go-go-Gadget super-growing plants when we discovered the most massive snails I have ever seen. This is a picture of the granddaddy snail, the largest of them all. Hold your hand out in front of you, and imagine a snail whose shell is the length of your index finger! These are no ordinary snails, folks. And one of our plants had SEVEN of them on it at once! Yikes! I'd hate to step on one of these in the dark...
Here we are, happily trimming and watering, oblivious to the creatures we are about to discover...
Whoa! Dude! The granddaddy of all snails!
And even though these aren't pictures of animals, I have to share them anyway because I am oh-so-proud of my first successful use of a power drill in our new home. (Don't worry, this episode was not preceded by any unsuccessful use of the power drill! :P) We decided to mount some new curtains in our living room to close off an open doorway and keep the room cooler when the air conditioning is on. Doug and I are having fun with home improvement projects like this!
Now our living room feels like a deliciously cool movie theater! Who wants to come visit?

Monday, May 3, 2010

From home to home, and back again

In a year full of firsts, I've just experienced yet another one: My First Trip Home. And one of the biggest things I've realized as a result of this trip is that home is a more fluid and dynamic concept than it used to be. On my flight back to the States, I met a German woman who said she was happy to be done with a stressful trip. "Are you heading home?" I asked her. She paused, then said, "From home to home." 

Hers is a phrase I've never had occasion to use before, until now. Having grown up in the same town my entire life, then venturing a whole 10 miles down the road to college, my sense of home is deeply rooted in one geographic spot. Sure, there was the junior year that I spent making a life for myself in Oxford's nooks and crannies, a year that stands out as one of my favorites. Yet as much as I loved it there, I always knew I was coming back to California, and I never made the mistake of referring to Oxford as "home."

But now, things feel a bit more complicated. Of course California will always feel like home: as I approach the green-turning-yellow light near TJ's, I realize I still know exactly how far away I can be and still make it through the intersection (perhaps with a slight tap of the accelerator). Going to the library with my dad, I marveled at the fact that I've been going to the same public library my entire life. (And yes, that guy in the bronze statue out front is still on the SAME page of his book. As a kid, I'd try to calculate how many words he could read a day and still stay on that page for one month, one year, one decade.) And of course, there are friends and family and kitties, so many loved ones in one place that I left wanting so much more time to soak it all in. Coming home on vacation is a challenge I encountered for the first time, and the stress of it caught me off guard: how to see everyone and every place I love in one short trip? (Short answer: you can't.)

Yet the world I return to is the land of many other important firsts: our first home as a married couple, our first time starting a business, our first pair of sibling kittens. It's still a foreign land, one that challenges me and scares me and annoys me and surprises me more than my first home. Nonetheless, it's the land where Doug and I have chosen to create our life together, and because of that, it too has become my home. 

And so, in my journey from home to home and back again, I am reminded of how thankful I am for all you precious, amazing people whom I am so blessed to know. As hard as it was to come home knowing I'd have to leave again so soon, getting a face-to-face dose of your love and support made it possible for me to come back and keep on living and growing here in this crazy new home of ours. If you take away just one thought from this post, I hope it's this: PLEASE GET SKYPE and email me your Skype name so we can video chat. I'm telling you, it is infinitely more satisfying than email. And I can guarantee you glimpses of some seriously cute African kittens! 
Delighting in the rainbow cornucopia of my latest trip to the fruit & veggie stands, while Eve looks on

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

"Are you going to blog about this?"

Rumor has it that the Roads Authority is paving the road outside our office. This is, ultimately, great news. For now, however, it means that the road leading to our office is dominated by tractors and rollers, and no one is allowed to drive or park on our road, so I've reverted to taxis as my commuting vehicles of choice. Yesterday afternoon, on my way home, I was sitting in the back seat of a yellow taxi, feeling hungry, sweaty, and tired, looking forward to getting home and taking my second of three showers of that day. When the driver pulled over to let out a passenger, I was surprised when the man in the front seat turned around and asked me, "Do you mind if I stop here for a few minutes? I need to go there and pick something up." He pointed across the street at the secondary school.

Keep in mind that these are taxis that run on scheduled routes: they'll pick you up and drop you off anywhere along the route, but that's it. If you want to deviate from the route, or loiter for any length of time, you get a Town Trip, i.e., you pay for your own taxi to take you wherever you choose. Thus my surprise and annoyance at the man's request to stop.

I was quiet for a moment, debating how annoyed to be in my reply. "No, I need to keep going," I said. He apologized and said it would just take a minute, and I sighed, preparing myself for some sort of interminable stop. Yet before I could settle too deeply in my cocoon of self-righteous annoyance, Mr. Quickstop was back. He had merely popped across the street to buy a bag of groundnuts from the old woman sitting on the side of the road. I could feel my little grey cloud lift as our taxi pulled back out into traffic.

As we proceeded along Kairaba Avenue, I half-listened as the man and the driver talked in a local language. From what I could tell, they seemed to be discussing how much money the taxi driver makes in a day, although I could only understand the few English words they sprinkled in their conversation. When the other back-seat passenger hopped out, the man in front turned around again to ask me, "Are you Peace Corps?" which is a question I hear a lot. I said no. He asked me if I spoke Mandinka, the language they'd been speaking. I told him that no, I only speak a little Wollof. "All the Peace Corps people these days, they all seem to speak Mandinka, so I thought maybe you could understand, sorry," he told me, apparently a bit concerned at having excluded me from their conversation.

Then he surprised me further by apologizing for his earlier stop. "I'm sorry about that," he said. "It's just that I promised someone I would bring groundnuts, and I forgot. Are you going to blog about this on the Internet?"

"No. Why?"

"It's just that, I didn't want to trouble you, that's why I asked your permission. You know, these Peace Corps people, any time something happens to them, they write about it in their blogs, and I don't like it when I'm reading there on the internet, and they're saying things about all of the bad things that have happened to them here." I assured him that no, no, I wasn't upset, that he had been very quick during his stop, that it wasn't a problem. Then, as we approached a mosque, he asked me whether I had ever considered becoming a Muslim. Again, I said no, not really, I don't know much about it, and he encouraged me to read the Qur'an.

Of course I need not point out the irony of blogging about a situation where I specifically told someone I wouldn't blog. And in some ways, I feel a bit like I've betrayed him by sharing this story. But the more I thought about it, the more I felt struck by the man's question, and I wanted to reflect on it. Even though I know that the Internet breaks down walls, and that there is nothing (save money and access to computers) to stop Africans from reading blogs written by Peace Corps volunteers and other sojourners, I still didn't really consider the possibility that non-Westerners were reading these cross-cultural chronicles, let alone moderating their behavior because of them.

While the man didn't actually go so far as to stay in the taxi when I told him that I needed to keep going, the fact that he bothered to ask permission of me, and not of the other passenger in the car, makes me realize that my presence here affects other people in ways I have not even imagined. Since our move here, I have been hyper-aware of all of the ways in which living here has changed me, but I never stopped to think about the ways in which my living here may affect Gambians. Sure, there is the obvious effect, I hope, of improving the lives of people who buy our lights. But I can't help but wonder, in what I hope is not too inflated a sense of self-importance, how else my presence affects the cultural climate, for better or worse. I can only hope that I will find out more as we go along.

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

My Level Best

It was only supposed to be a quick trip to Serrekunda Market to meet with a potential customer. At the guidance of the friend traveling with us, I turned the car down the crowded, narrow market road, navigating slowly down a dusty, unpaved road teeming with people on foot, people on bicycles, people pushing wheelbarrows full of household items, and people carrying stacks of fabric on their heads. I tried to turn down a side street where we needed to go, but a man in the crowd waved his arms at me and shouted, "One way! One way!" Then, in Wollof, our friend asked the man where we could park, since we couldn't drive right to the shop where we needed to go. The man gestured to a place further down the road where a few taxis had pulled over to park in front of some market stalls selling fabric and plastic buckets. I pulled up in front of the plastic buckets, getting as far to the side as I could, and we went off to see our customer.

Twenty minutes later, as I walked up to the driver's side of the car, keys already in hand, a female police officer approached me. I have a theory about female police officers, which is that I'd rather deal with them than the male police officers. The women generally seem less threatening, and less inclined to yell at me, than the male police officers I've encountered on the roads so far. "Is this your car?" she bellowed. "What are you doing here? You cannot park here! Show me your documents!" Gulp. So much for my theory. I hand her my license and the insurance paperwork. She folds my license inside the insurance paperwork and holds it tightly in her hands. I hate surrendering the originals, but officers always ask for originals. Now they are her leverage over me. "Come with me," she says. "We're going to the police station."

Ah, the dreaded words: We're going to the police station. Doug and I have already bribed our way out of this dreaded phrase on four separate occasions, and for a moment, I have hope that we can do it a fifth time. But suddenly, one, two, three more police officers of varying ranks surround us, their voices raised in various degrees of anger and authority. I glance down the street, and my chest tightens as I see a gleaming white police tow truck pulling up alongside our car. It's the first tow truck I've ever seen in the country, and it is now blocking all traffic on this cramped one-way street. A long line of taxis and cars behind it are now honking furiously, and the highest ranking police officer starts yelling at the others to hurry up.

"Where is the key?" the female police officer demands of me. 

"It's here, it's here," I say, keeping the keys firmly inside my purse. "Please, I'm here now. I do not want any trouble. You do not need to tow my car. Please, I will drive it to the station myself." 

"Talk to my boss," she says, waving in his general direction. I look over at the man, and he is gesticulating angrily at everyone while talking to Doug and our friend. At some point, he waves the tow truck along in frustration, since it has been blocking traffic for too long, and I breathe a small sigh of relief as I watch the truck roll slowly away from us. 

After a bit more heated gesturing, the police boss assigns our case to another, lower ranking male police officer who has been hovering about. The female officer hands my documents to our new escort, who joins us in the car. When I look up, I see that the tow truck has picked up another poor soul's car further down the road, and I am suddenly grateful that we got to our car before the tow truck did. The officer in our car tells me to follow the tow truck down the road. Where the road widens slightly, the police officers bark at me to make a seemingly impossible U-turn as dozens of onlookers stare and point. I hear someone call my name, and out of the corner of my eye, I spot my tailor in the crowd, but I am too distracted, nervous, and embarrassed to wave back at her. 

We survive the U-turn, and the police boss and the original officer both yell at the officer in our car to take us directly to the station. Dang it; there go all of my hopes of bribing this man. We crawl down the street to the station, and my heart sinks even further as we roll through the green gates.

Our escort asks me, politely enough, for the key to the car. I fumble nervously with my keychain for a moment, and finally manage to detach the key. Then the three of us follow the officer into a small office where half a dozen people sit waiting for two other officers to process their documents. Our escort hands my papers to the man sitting at the desk, who passes them off to the woman next to him. I watch as she copies my name onto an official-looking sheet of paper, then starts writing other things.

When she finishes, she calls my name. Her first question is not what I expect, and I have to ask her to repeat it. "Can you read?" she repeats, and I nod. "Here, read this." She hands me my summons. It states, in very official language, that on today's date, on or about 14:30, I have hereby obstructed traffic on a public highway, etc., etc., and that I must appear in court tomorrow morning for a hearing. Appear in court? For a parking violation? There wasn't even a No Parking sign! She asks me to sign the page, but I hedge, saying that Doug is calling our friend who is a police officer, and I want to wait for him to arrive. She huffs a bit, and another officer says, "You refuse to sign our papers, you don't listen to us, then how do you expect us to help you?"

I change tack a bit, becoming apologetic, asking if I can please just talk with someone, it was a mistake, I am very sorry, is there anything I can do? She says that I can appeal to the man inside the inner office. Our friend nudges me forward, saying that I should go in to make the appeal by myself, not wait for our police officer friend to arrive. He can tell by listening to their conversations in Wollof that they were willing to excuse the offense since they've decided we are foreigners who don't know any better, but they got offended when we started to talk about "calling our guy." I ask if it's OK to go into the office to speak to the officer in charge. Doug comes with me.

Inside, I find three officers, one of whom seems to be the leader of the group. "Excuse me, sir, may I speak to you about my situation?" He agrees. "I am so sorry, sir. I have made a mistake. You see, I am new to the country, and I asked the local people if it was OK to park there, and they said yes, so I thought it was OK. I never meant to cause any trouble, I am very sorry for this, I understand now that parking there is not allowed. I appeal to you for your assistance." I am humble, meek, penitent, slightly formal. I listen and nod while he explains how they are trying to keep the streets clear, that the market road is already too crowded, and that they are simply trying to do their jobs as police officers to keep the streets clear. "Yes, yes, of course, you must keep it safe for everyone," I say. "I understand, I will not ever park there again, I promise." He tells me that he has left my situation to the discretion of the officer in the front office, but that he will speak to the man for me.

Back in the front office, I stand in front of the desk officer who is still in possession of my license, my insurance, and most importantly, my car key. I have heard him request a $100 fine from another man in the room, and I steel myself for a similar amount, though I do not know the other man's offense. Surely, I think, he will not charge me any less, given that my skin color screams money to most people. He looks up at me and makes similar comments about needing to keep the roads clear. I repeat my apologies, more abridged this time. He says that he knows that I am new to the country, I am still learning the ways of the road, and that they will let me go with a warning this time. I promise that I understand now, and that I will not cause a problem again. Just when I think he will ask me for money, he picks up my court summons and tears it into pieces. "Don't worry, it is finished," he says. I ask for my car key, afraid to take it, uncertain if I am really free. "Is that your key? Take it," he tells me. I pick it up off the table and walk outside to where Doug has gone to greet our police officer friend.

"Did he really just let you go?" Doug asks.

"Yes, just a warning," I reply. We can hardly believe it.

The most unnerving thing about interacting with police officers here is not knowing the rules. Back home, if I get pulled over for speeding or for making a wrong turn, I am annoyed, or perhaps angry at myself, but not scared. I'm not worried about how to interact with the police officers; I know that I hand them my license and registration, they scan it, maybe ask me if I knew that my headlight was out, or that I really shouldn't have turned out into traffic quite so quickly. And except for that night in college that a cop pulled me over on the freeway in downtown San Jose and made me get out of the car and accused me of being both drunk and stoned (um, hello? I don't think so!), I know that at most, they'll just write me a ticket, hand it over, and then I'll go on my merry way.

Here, there are no such rules. I have been yelled at on multiple occasions by police officers, not in a threatening, I'm-going-to-hurt-you sort of way, but in a way that implies that I am an idiot driver with no right to be behind the wheel. Each time, I have also been told that I have to go to the station for a court summons -- this seems to be the common threat for every traffic violation, however small. And Doug and I have both been stopped for questionable reasons that seem like blatant attempts to get bribes, like the day a cop pulled Doug over because "our car sounded too loud." Up til now, we've paid small bribes to avoid going to the station. Officers don't usually ask for bribes outright, but will accept them if they are presented in a relatively suave, let's-not-have-this-hassle sort of way.

But today, I'm actually sort of glad that we finally went to the station. As I sat there in the office, crossing my fingers and sending up silent prayers for a quick resolution, I realized that the people in front of me were not my enemies. They're just people. They aren't out to get me (just maybe my money). I'm not going to get dragged into the back room and tortured. If I am apologetic, and state my case humbly and sincerely, going to the station does not have to be the end of the world. As our friend put it today, you just need to do your level best, and everything should work out. (And if your level best doesn't work, then you call in your police officer friend.)

Don't get me wrong, I hope today was the first and the last time I ever have to drive through those green gates. But now it's one less unknown for me to fear. I have been there, done that, and written the blog post. As much as I hope to never visit a police station here again, I feel a bit more confident that I can handle the situation if I do.

That said, I don't think I'll be parking near a market anytime soon.